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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ll start by saying I am pregnant right now and physically things are getting harder and harder. I have asked dh to replace the door stoppers several times now. I ordered replacements that are more secure from Amazon 2 months ago. A few weeks ago he attempted but decided he might stump his toe and doesn’t want them there anymore. I said he needs to figure out how to fix the baseboard then because there is a huge hole and it would be easier to just replace them. He didn’t look into options. Today I attempted to replace them myself but let’s just say it wasn’t successful. I couldn’t get the right angle with my bump. I asked my 8 year old to help hold a part for him and dh is just sitting on the sofa. I was so livid. We also have this bidet sprayer that has been damaging the wall and damaging the wood floors so I said let’s switch to one that has the bidet spray in the toilet seat. Dh refuses to switch and says it’s a waste of money blah blah blah. We just moved into a new construction townhouse. Why would you want to damage the walls and the wood floors just so you can keep this cheap $20 sprayer to clean your ass? Makes no sense and I just paid to wall paper the powder room so the kids will end up damaging it again if we don’t replace the sprayer. These things seem so small and most people wouldn’t need to spend so much time discussing what’s right, what to do etc. Dh ended up leaving and hasn’t been home in several hours. I feel his perceptions are off or something. In the future I think it makes sense to hire someone and stop discussing these things. Dh also loves to say I do decor stuff without him but he has zero ideas. His idea is literally to do nothing. He got so angry because I wanted to change the kitchen knobs last year. I wanted to upgrade our builder kitchen to make it more modern … we have brown cabinets and the options the builders gave us were minimum. I spent $50 on black and brass knobs and pulls and they look great. He loves to tell people I did everything and give me credit when they see our house. It doesn’t make sense and when we were picking finishes for the house he had no interest. He said he doesn’t care and I’m better at choosing. Our house wouldn’t have art or anything on the walls of dh was in charge of decor. The furniture would be brown or navy and mostly likely there would be no rugs anywhere in the house except the bathrooms. He knows I love decorating. He just wants to take a dig at me because he’s mad.

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