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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 15 lpartners at work and we talk to each other about vacations, how we are feeling, what we did over the weekend, bounding ideas of reach other, etc.  he isn’t her boss — he’s her partner.  The only thing that seems very different is that there are only 2 of them.  If their business is successful and making money and their personal friendship allows the business to thrive, I don’t see a real issue.  (If they are not doing well because they spend too much time chatting, that’s a different issue.)

I just can’t see how you benefit by making a big deal about this “emotional affair.”  Obviously it improves his mood to have a friend that he is in business with.  Do you want him in a worse mood? Do you want his business to dissolve because they feel awkward around each other?  What do you gain by telling him he can’t talk to his business partner so much?  It seems to me you gain nothing and potentially lose a lot.

Finall question—[b]would you feel this way if it was a male partner?[/b]  [/quote]

This. If it’s same sex, you know you would think it’s just friendship. But it’s the opposite sex, so it’s an “emotional affair.”  :roll: 
OP, insecurity is so unattractive. [/quote]

OP: I’m really over the “cool girl”, go with the flow type of persona people try to push on women. “Insecurity is so unattractive”; great. I don’t honestly care about what’s attractive. What I care about is the respect and love my husband and I have for each other in our marriage. If something makes me feel uncomfortable, I don’t give a shit if it’s unattractive to discuss or makes me look insecure. [b]My happiness, my satisfaction with my marriage, and my personhood is worth looking insecure over. [/b]Imagine caring how you look when you’re hurting inside and too scared to talk to your spouse because “it’s unattractive”. Pass.[/quote]

Me, me, me. My, my, my. What about your husband’s happiness? He clearly has a good working relationship with this woman. Do you honestly want to blow up his professional life just because it makes you uncomfortable?

Don’t worry, no one has ever mistaken you for a cool girl. You’re the stage 5 clinger that most men were smart enough to avoid. [/quote]
The gaslighter arrives.[/quote]

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