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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. [b]He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. [/b] And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.[/quote]

My husband does all of the bolded and I would not consider him “alpha,” just a regular, decent dude.  In fact there are a lot of facets of life where I am in charge and that’s fine with both of us.

Like if you forget your purse is your husband not supposed to cover it?  Like what?[/quote]

Agree. Geez already.  Covered if you forgot your purse? Of course. [/quote]

DP, that part was very confusing to me too.  Maybe she’s trying to tell us he pays for everything which would be worthy of note since they aren’t married? But I would expect either party to take care of the other if one was without cash. I guess it’s not feminine that I don’t care and would pay for anyone I cared for in that situation, including my husband?[/quote]

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