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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am mid 40s and divorced. I think I was done looking for love when I was 28 before I met my ex-husband because I was destroyed by a break up. I think by the time most people hit 30 they’re done with the love thing because you can’t really grow together if you’re getting married in your late 20s or later. I think love and marriage only works if you’re getting married from 22-27 or so. I would never remarry because I did not see any benefits of marriage whatsoever and I’m not naïve enough to think that I’m going to find love like I did in my early 20s.[/quote] I’m mid forties and still married. I met Dh in my mid twenties, got married at 29 and had 3 kids together in our thirties. We absolutely grew together. I feel we are drifting apart now in our mid forties. He hasn’t changed much but I have.[/quote] You just proved my point exactly because you met in your mid-20s and you married by 29. It is completely different if you meet at 29 or 30 and get married in your 30s—that’s my point. I did not meet my ex until 30; he was 34. That is way too late to grow together. [/quote]
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