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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP has it backwards.  You really need to have a strong desire to HAVE kids to have them.  Many of our problems in our society are caused by people having children they really do/did not want and don't care about.  We have thousands of children being raised in households here they are not prioritized and it leads to many issues.

Not me, to two of my best friends are very happy in DINK marriages.  Children are expensive and totally time consuming.  These friends both found careers that they loved and pastimes that they loved.  They wanted to invest their time and money into their careers and avocations.  They enjoy the freedom to engage in new endeavors when they want to.  [/quote]

I don't have strong desire to HAVE kids because I never had any of my own. I can rarely be affectionate and sweet to other people's rude or bratty kids but I do get a want when I come across a kid who is sweet or funny. My cousin who is a notorious cheater and whose own child called her by her first name for the first 8 yrs of his life is ultra affectionate and sweet to other people's kids. She's not an ideal parent though. So there.[/quote]

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