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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Dog is not an excuse by any means. Every trip I’ve taken there has been hell on earth, and all because no one wanted to make a viable decision. They’ve cost us a lot of money, and me, real physical and mental hardship.

My dog, on the other hand, has been a loyal, sweet companion.

There will be a come to Jesus on this visit. If she decides to come back to an assisted living here, I have no problem helping her;  shopping, doc appts, etc. I have the flexibility and time, and she’s not hard to be around. If she is still letting her fears run her decisions, then after this visit, I won’t go back. FaceTime, fine. Phone calls, fine. But I won’t do the back and forth thing. It costs too much both financially, physically, and emotionally.

As for hiring a personal assistant, you all must have unlimited funds to burn. If she decides to come back, we have family (nurses) that will come out and fly back with me to assist. [/quote]

Well it helps that dogs can’t talk back or ask for what they want.

Sounds like that is how one wins your undying love !

(And she is not volitionally “letting ” her fears dictate her decisions. She is genuinely afraid.

Perhaps if you could reach inside and find some empathy/compassion for her reality…she would be more inclined to trust you  and comply? 🤔[/quote]

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