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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I fight this in myself, but if I fight it more successfully than your husband. I don't think what he's doing is right, stress or no stress. If he doesn't admit he has a problem and figure out a plan to work on it, then yes, I would remove the children from his care as much as possible. I didn't know I would feel the rage and anger I feel sometimes, and he may be shocked by it too. But he has a responsibility to improve. Force-feeding a child is really wrong. And honestly, my first instinct was: if this is what he feels okay doing in front of your parents, what is he doing when nobody is watching??[/quote]

That was my thought too OP. I asked if you worked because I think this issue may cause you to leave. If he is like this with such tiny kids how is he going to react to older ones? The feeding shows a total lack of boundaries and was a choking hazzard. It's so obviously wrong, would it be permitted in a nursing home? It is so controlling and so "might makes right" and shows no respect for the kid or good judgment. I would not leave the kids alone with him. You cannot control someone else's "stress", I am in the process of divorce because of lack of healthy parenting and dealing with emotions. [/quote]

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