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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are cheater and non- cheater.

Non-cheater don't cheat no matter the circumstance.

Cheaters will cheat (no matter how wonderful their spouse) but they need opportunity and timing.

They may be at a conference - timing - but no opportunity.
They may be at a conference and get hit on - opportunity - but their spouse came with them - bad timing.

So yuo need to be a cheater (which is internal to each person), have good timing and an opportunity.
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Totally agree with the above post.  I think some men (including my DH) are not cheaters.  Just aren't.  He would be clueless if a woman threw herself at him.  He has always been good looking, even now 25 years later, so I'm sure somewhere along the line a woman has tried flirting with him.  He just wouldn't have the time, the energy, the desire, or know how to flirt back so eventually the other woman would be dead in the water and lose interest.  That's just not his MO.

I have come across married men who seem to be actively fishing for someone to cheat.  They are the type that flirt with every woman they come across.  They tend to have lots of women "friends" whom they spend a lot of time with either at lunch or talk with during the work day.  Conversations often get too personal and probing.  Their MO is by casting a wide enough net, eventually they will find a woman to say yes.  But they need the opportunity and timing to follow through.  If the cheater has this, it's a no brainer, he will have sex with her.

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