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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP if you were happy with the work, just verbally acknowledge that it sounds like both of you have had a rough go of it and pick a time to finish and COMMIT. I'd have to know exactly what he said but for me, cursing is NBD especially for a contractor and there is a huge difference between 'f**ck you' and 'this f**cking work'. [/quote] I was the one who said cursing was inappropriate, but I didn't mean because it would offend me. I meant because in the context of this story (she said he was irate with her and it was frightening her), I think it signals he's angry and a bit out of control and potentially volatile. What if OP makes him angrier somehow? I had a worker I had a bad feeling about once and he ended up grabbing me in a scary way. I wish I had just told the general contractor no the first day that guy was there. It was a different feeling from just not liking him. He was creepy. Different scenario, but I hear OP is uncomfortable and that's important for her to listen to.[/quote]
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