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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One can say it is a good time to be a woman. I think the stigma around women sleeping around like men is gone.[/quote]

You can think this but it's objectively not true.  Women are the gatekeepers for sex, and if they give it away cheaply, they're showing they think it's not worth much.  Men gatekeep relationships, and the equivalent male fault is allowing himself to be used in the friend zone.  Neither is good. [/quote]
This is a super antiquated way of thinking. Why can’t women prioritize pleasure for themselves without you assigned moral value and judging for it?[/quote]

Morals are often just practical advice to effect better outcomes dressed up with a bow.  Women have few eggs and are hypergamous to maximize the return from their pregnancies.  A woman who just "gives it away" doesn't value herself from an evolutionary perspective, and any high value guy will pump and dump without investment.  You don't have to look it as a moral quandary, but it's an evolutionary failing for women to sleep around.  Sure, a few women can pull it off, but most feel bad because evolution has made pickiness an essential part of their nature.

All the ladies who want to sleep around are welcome to do so and advertise it.  Just don't complain when guys crack jokes about the sucker dude who's getting sloppy seconds.  [/quote]

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