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Reply to "I do things for people that they wouldn’t do for me"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think friendships should be reciprocal however there shouldn't be an expectation to reciprocate martyrdom, self-sacrifice and people pleasing behaviour. You are doing that for you because it makes you feel some kind of superiority - the above and beyond isn't for others, it is for yourself. It is healthy for people to not fall into people pleasing / martyrdom land and to have boundaries and prioritize and decision make in healthy ways. You not being able to do that is your issue, it doesn't make them bad. I wouldn't twist myself and my life into a pretzel to accommodate my friends and I have zero expectation that they should do the same for me. If they do it, their choice and no I won't reciprocate their unhealthy behaviour.[/quote]
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