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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your mad your husband arranged for his OWN PARENTS to meet his baby? Yes, you are TA. He probably should have mentioned it to you but it is completely reasonable to do this, and extremely unreasonable if you refused, unless there are real extenuating circumstances. You’re weeks post-partum, not days.

Now you’d be justified in being mad if they are sleeping at your house and he’s not going to do all the hosting. But no, you don’t get to block him indefinitely from introducing his child to his family/friends. [/quote]

If your husband prioritizes his parents over his wife and child he's on the wrong page. His priorities just changed in a major way. He needs to understand that—his first thought should be the mother and the baby. Everyone else can wait. If they are wanted and if their visit doesn't impose, they should be allowed to come. But a multi-day visit from in-laws is a taxing enterprise when you dont have any children, or a baby or an entire total life rewrite. The OP is going through some big stuff, asking her to play hotel manager for a bunch of pushy distant relatives is not reasonable. [/quote]

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