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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I were in the the parent's shoes, I would talk to my child and explain that I am very, very happy that my child is happy and that I think that they've found a great partner. But I would say that I get overwhelmed by the partner, so I can only handle a certain amount of time and then need some alone time.[/quote] This is a textbook example of how ILs cause rift between couples. You need to fix yourself instead of trying to fix or eliminate others. [/quote] There’s nothing to fix. I wouldn’t say anything, but being an introvert is not a character flaw.[/quote] By fixing yourself I didn't mean to change herself but to learn to embrace her DIL as she is, imperfect like every human but great in so many ways. Focusing on her flaws and sharing it with others isn't healthy. Why ruin their happiness, cause a rift and creat stress? Be great full for good fortune of your child for having a good partner in life's tough journey.[/quote]
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