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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A year and a half ago I was blindsided by my exDH’s affair. He is now about to move in with and marry his AP. We have two kids 8 and 10. The thought of this woman being their stepmother makes me feel horrible. if you’ve been through something like this, how did you get through?[/quote]

Sorry OP unfortunately all you can do is hope that she is a good step mother. I heard from a colleague that another colleague had an affair with a married man and the guy left his wife for her. I always hear about these stories but never met anyone who went through it. Some people really have gut. How can you wreck lives this way and still live a normal life?[/quote]

I have a distant cousin who went thru men like tissues and a single mom. She was the nanny for a couple and had an affair with the husband and then pregnant. The husband left the wife for my distant cousin. They're stil together. [/quote]

I do not want to make it a gendered issue but it seems to me like women are more likely to shamefully go after a married man and if she can has no problem taking that husband away from his wife. Of course the man isn't innocent but I don't know women just seem fine wrecking another woman's life for her own happiness.[/quote]

I agree with you. I don't get why we always act like only the married one is the problem. Just because you're unmarried, doesn't make you less guilty of destroying lives. If you're knowingly involved with someone who is married, you're just as guilty of wrecking a home as the married spouse.[/quote]

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