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[quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry OP.  I would have a hard time not bad mouthing them and hoping they wind up miserable.

This isn’t in the same ballpark and I don’t want to minimize your own experience… but it was a very painful betrayal.  My ex who cheated on me and was emotionally abusive during marriage and after the divorce, is now dating a woman I was close friends with and who knew I actively avoided him and how he treated me and that I was afraid of him.  She took his side which after abuse is re-traumatizing. She was just that desperate for a man and he was that manipulative. And no we are no longer friends after she chose him.

My kids hate her (for now) but it makes me sick to think one day she could be around them.  My ex of course is trying to convince them she is a good person.  It hate that someone benefits from my pain.  So yeah the AP benefits from you losing your family.  The injustice is too much.  And anyone who has been abused or cheated on worried the new woman won’t experience the shitty treatment and it was a reflection of us.

He plays the victim because I left him — but conveniently leaves out the horrible treatment that led me to leave.

I’m trying to focus on all the good in my life but OP I get it it’s hard.   Time and minimal contact will hopefully work tbeir magic.[/quote]

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