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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’ve been married less than two years and he started doing this the first six months. When I stopped letting it bother me eg I stopped pointing it out. Matter of fact I would spread out on the whole bed and enjoy it. When he realized it wasn’t getting to me, he stopped. We had an argument last night and he slept on the couch.

We just suffered a miscarriage and things are a bit sensitive so my feelings are a bit hurt with the couch thing again. Should I ignore it? What should I do?[/quote]

First, I'm sorry about the miscarriage. Have hope. I had multiple multiple and now have two amazing children.

But what is his goal sleeping on the couch, to hurt you? I think I'd try to detach, but  ask him if it was comfortable, how he slept, and ask him why he's doing it.[/quote]

Guy here and sleeping on the couch for me is showing her respect and giving her space.  If she is bothered me or my presence at that time, whey would  I put myself in a situation where I we are forced to be close:

My wife told me it hurt her when I  did sleep on the couch.  But there was also no way effort on her end to let me know it was ok after a fight.  Then as a man you have to make a decision to you trust what she said after the last fight sleep in the bed, or trust what she expressed that day that she doesn’t want to be anywhere near you and sleep on the couch. [/quote]

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