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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is both immature and true. I don't drink either and I can feel the vibe change when I get a water.

I still get my water and go way out of my way to make sure people know I am not judging anyone else who is drinking. And no one ever makes a big deal about it. But I definitely do feel that it changes the tone.[/quote]

NP. I'm sorry you "feel the vibe change" and you feel you must go out of your way to explain yourself and explain you're not judging. PP, that all indicates that your friends are not actually good, non-judgemental friends to you; you're picking up on the fact that THEY are judging YOU, and feel you have to explain yourself. No one should have to explain such a basic, personal, doesn't-affect-anyone-else choice to a real friend. I'd seriously consider if they're judgemental in other ways, not just about drinking, or if they like to drink until they're drunk or at least a little buzzed and if you really want to spend your time around that any more.

Having to "make sure people know I am not judging" whenever you're just supposed to be enjoying each others' company would be exhausting eventually. I know, you say no one "makes a big deal about it" but if there's a discernable vibe change to you, well, you're kind of letting them off the hook for judging you when you aren't judging them. Doesn't sound like a good time to me. [/quote]

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