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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think there’s a solution to fix an ND male and NT female relationship that doesn’t result in bitterness and resentment. Many men are already conditioned to have poor executive functioning skills and they simply lack empathy. When you add a diagnosis and children who are most likely afflicted with the same condition, it’s just too much to handle. You basically have a parentalized relationship versus an equal marriage and there’s nothing less romantic.[/quote]

Not true for me, and I’ve been happily married for twenty years. He hyperfocuses at work and is super productive, and I’m type A and ridiculously organized in the home which is exactly how I like it. Works for us. Don’t generalize.[/quote]

As you know, you can’t drop comments like the above and not specify if you work full time, if you have kids if you have local grandparent or daily Nannie’s/housekeeper.

Either way, at least adhd doesn’t also result in having a lonely, neglected NT spouse, like an ASD one would have.[/quote]

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