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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the one who became extremely fit in our marriage. I had been very into fitness in college and right after and then got injured so kind of let it go. DH met me when I was just a stereotypical decently in shape 25 year old. At 40, I changed jobs and had a lot more free time and got back into fitness. I have never wanted to replace DH or not been attracted to him. I don't like the buff gym guys. I like that DH is a little soft. I'd say figure out ways to work on yourself. Your insecurity and fear is far more likely to cause issues than him being in shape. [/quote] I agree with this. Find something that you love to do and that makes you feel happy and confident. It doesn't need to be working out, because your husband probably likes you as you are.[/quote]
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