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[quote=Anonymous]You sound insecure OP

What he said to you at the end was extremely rude. I could be doing work? He’s stressed sure but that’s his way of getting out of a conversation?

And you also sound possibly codependent. You call him with emotional needs in the middle of work — fine, ok — then he responds non optimally and you can’t speak up for yourself, you consider sending a FU text that you’d probably regret and undo and then you ask on here with the clear intent of getting a green light for him.

I see some red flags here — he’s way too wrapped up in being heard on his point of view. That will translate to issues down the line. In addition he is passionate about something while you want him to be passionate about you, and you are actually not passionate about him being him, which includes this obnoxious habit of foregrounding his own interests and expecting everyone to see things as he does. You guys are not a match and he’s not as good of a boyfriend as you think. Do some work to figure out why you are afraid to lose this doomed relationship. [/quote]

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