Reply to Dating and splitting costs

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Dating and splitting costs"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friends were telling me how in this age of dating, couples often split costs for everything and often Venmo one another back and forth.

Is this true? Is it normal for couples to go Dutch?

Guys have always paid for dates when I was dating 20 years ago. I don’t think I would have gone on a second date if the guy wanted to split the bill on our first date.[/quote]

Time to woman up and pay your fair share.  You make your own money and have a job, so pay for your stuff.  
I don't date broke woman, if you want to go out and eat somewhere expensive better be a place you can afford.

I will spend money on a woman once she's committed and we're exclusive.  With OLD and women entertaining four or five guys at a time I'm not wasting money.

With that being said, I'm glad there is a men's counter group to the AWDTSG page, a woman showed up I matched with and she showed up on the group as a woman who would use guys for multiple dinners per week.  Her account got reported to Bumble and she got removed.  She was a regular in the group and was making foodie calls...so now she's banned. [/quote]

It’s usually the men who avoid commitment or exclusivity. Not sure why I should pay for a guy who is going out with multiple women. If he wants to take me out to “test” our chemistry - he pays. I won’t subsidize him dining younger women he might find a “higher” value.

Once I had a date with a guy who agreed to split but mentioned prior to that he was paying for a 20 smth woman. I declined his offer for a third date- he can keep paying for 20 year olds who use him as sugar daddy.

After a man asked to be exclusive it’s a joint pro-data budget on dates. I always contribute to joint travel etc

I’m not broke - make 400k a year it’s a matter of fairness and avoiding some types of men who are using women for free sex 
[/quote]

But aren't YOU also testing him out for chemistry? Isn't dating a two way street? And is it ok if you go out with multiple guys as long as they pay? You seem to be approaching dating in a very strange way.

Also, a 20 year old is a not worthy of him paying for stuff but you are? What do you bring to the table other than your shitty attitude?  [/quote]

I bring an equal partnership after he proves he’s truly interested and invested in me. In all aspects - physical, mental, potential for joint household and travel. I literally bring a small corporation he can partner into.

Of course he can pay everything for a 20 yo but it will be a life of servitude to her needs and youth for him. With her dumping or cheating on him

I don’t go out with multiple guys. I’m dating very selectively only within my social circle and never downgrade. First date is a video check-in; second a daytime coffee, third a concert or joint activity. But the third with me is nearly impossible to get. Only 2 men got it post divorce.

[b]Currently I date a hedge fund manager who is a billionaire and I’m not even making it up. I know what I’m doing. [/b]

[/quote]

:D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  Sure you are. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics