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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you just want to be DINKs then who cares.  Also at your age, she might be best you'll ever be able to do.  Let's say she hits 30 and all her friends start hitting their major life milestones and you're still not ready, but she is, and dumps you.  You're now back in the dating pool with a different, older crowd of women.[/quote]

OP here. Most older men always find younger women. They almost always pass up the older women for younger. Not saying it’s right but I think men my age still go for 23-30 year old women. [/quote]

My point is that they are less likely to go for you as you age.[/quote]

OP here. I don’t agree with that. Many men my age still date younger women and I think they can always get that. It’s women over 35 that have a harder time of ever finding a partner because men my age won’t date them. [/quote]

No, they can't always get that. They might be able to find a woman who is numerically younger, but as a man ages, the *quality* of young woman he can attract drops significantly. If you want to make that tradeoff, fine. But don't pretend it isn't there.

You say your kids deserve an intact family, okay. Do they also deserve a father who's young enough to effectively parent them, and will live long enough to see his grandkids? Because if you keep being indecisive, they're not going to have that. First you're saying that marriage is a big decision, delay delay delay. Then you'll be saying that having a kid is a big decision, delay more. Then you'll delay the second kid because that's a big decision too.

Yes, marrying is a risk. But you know what else is a risk? Your girlfriend deciding you're much too indecisive and not serious about you, and dumping you to marry someone else. You say you love her. Do you want that?[/quote]

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