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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here. Yes, multiple times over the years. Generally by women I had history with and they knew I was interested in them (we had either dated, or there had been sexual tension in a friendship).  Some of the women were married, some single.

I will admit to putting myself in positions that made this possible (usually being alone with them late at night without my wife present), but I always declined, and they took it well. It was never offered twice.

I’m tall, well educated, an extrovert, generally known as a nice person, and am successful in my professional life.  My wife is also very attractive, and I wonder sometimes if that ever factored into it. Most of these women knew my wife, but they were all my friends, not hers (ie none of her friends have ever expressed romantic interest in me).

I’m only counting women that knew I was married or in a LTR (before marriage), and directly offered to have affairs.  If you open it up to just getting hit on, or people you have sexual tension with, then it gets much larger.  But, to be fair, likely much of that would never progress even if I reciprocated. And many of those didn’t know I was married (I don’t wear a ring). As an extrovert, I enjoy the interaction and tension, but have always stuck to flirting only. [/quote]

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