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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been an expat.  There is a mail order bride vibe sometimes.  Man is maybe American or British, older, not a great catch except for money.  Woman is younger, better looking, from a poorer country.  I had a neighbor like this, she was asking for my help to get some software on her computer, she said she couldn’t ask her husband. She couldn’t get the $60 or whatever for the software and we were living in a very nice gated community.  Maybe she was a liar and just trying to get money from me but l don’t think so.

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In this case, Friend B is from the same hometown (presumably in the US) as OP. So not some exploited mail order bride. She might not have control over her finances, but also-- does she actually needs a treadmill? I think she just wanted it, and figured she could wheedle it out of OP for free. Maybe this is how she makes herself feel powerful though she has no income or freedom with money. I'm empathetic towards that situation, but then she's using OP to work out her own issues. OP has her own problems, she's not just a tool for her friend to use.[/quote]

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