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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you had an alternative buyer, that would be a different situation. You don’t. The options are give it to a stranger or give it to one of your best friends. Seems like a really obvious answer to me.

As for your friend, maybe her spending habits have gotten her in trouble and she needs to cut back. I’d accept what she told you about her financial status.

Good luck with the move![/quote]

This is the obvious, OP.  Exactly what I was going to say.  You need to think abou this only factually from your perspective - you have no buyer and she's your friend.  Do you have another friend to give it to that could use it?  If not the answer is obvious.[/quote]

No, because of the friend's behavior in wheedling and harassing OP to give it to her. The friend could have backed the heck off and left OP alone, and then when the buyer fell through, said "well my offer to take it off your hands still stands-- I know it's not the cash you were hoping for, but I can at least pay to have it moved."

The friend acted like a demanding, petulant, entitled child. She behaved in a way that is making OP feel used, even though she doesn't have other good choices here.

The friend's behavior was not okay. This isn't really even about the treadmill.[/quote]

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