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[quote=Anonymous]OP- would you be willing to try Jesus?  I think life in your 20's can be an extremely lonely time.  You have a few factors that compound that- covid robbing you of normal college socialization, being in a job that you are miserable in.   I'm in my 40s now- but I do remember being single and in my 20's and just kind of adrift.  I 'found my people' at church.  I lived in a house with a great group of girls I found through church.  I became good friends with another group of girls at church (some overlap but not one for one with roomies).  Its not clear to me whether you are still in the DC area- but look for churches with a strong group of singles in their 20s.   
Another thought- I hear you about spending a lot of money on therapy- but I wonder if you might benefit from some career counseling.  You might even be able to reach back to the career counseling office at your college.  Having a job you basically enjoy is fairly important to happiness.  If not a job you enjoy, at least coworkers you enjoy- sounds like you had neither at your previous job.
I echo what others said- move out of your parents house- that's just holding you back.  Don't worry about the long term future- but set short term goals- this is what I want to do in 3 months (move to x), this is what I want to do in 6 months. etc.[/quote]

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