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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I relate, 100%. Also East Asian. I didn't find my people in college. I went to grad school. Didn't find my people there either. I went into the work force, utter failure. I can't really tell you when things fell into place because it all happened so slowly and there was a lot of one step forward, two steps back in there. I met my husband. I left the area where my family was and started a new life elsewhere. My son is in private school, turned down a spot at a known "pressure cooker" for one that gets continually dogged on this forum, but my kids are happy, exploring who they are and I'm trying really hard not to have history repeat itself. I honestly feel content now, even though I gave up so much of what I was working towards. [/quote] OP here. Finally, someone who can relate! Do you ever feel angry and resentful about how your parents stole your sense of self from you? I know that both of these emotions are unhealthy, but those are all I feel these days. When did these feelings of anger and resentment subside for you? [/quote]
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