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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not going to get therapy - not my thing. [/quote] Thanks for letting us know why you're getting a divorce :lol: OP, if you're actually serious, you'll need to grieve. You'll also want to look at how you contributed to the divorce. He may have yelled when talking about finances but, at a minimum, you allowed that and tolerated it for howeverlong. And, if you're willing to be honest, I'm sure you'll find plenty of ways you could've done better by yourself in this marriage. Unless you plan on being single for the rest of your life, you'll need better skills than you currently have to make a better relationship next time. Go to therapy. Group, private, church, whatever... do your own work. Part of processing grief is understanding what really happened to you, and you're not thinking clearly if you're still blaming it all on him.[/quote]
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