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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Just my 2 Cents here, It;s more harmful to the kids to pretend like everything is fine and was fine and mommy and daddy just broke up for funsies.

[b]Kids know I knew, and though I didn't have the words for it then I had  that crazy making feeling of being gaslit.[/b]

I was about he age of OP's son and I had questions I wanted answers. Especially since my parents put on a great front as perfect  couple, upstanding citizens church goers etc.

Eventually it all came out, and  more than the split I was angry about the lies.

Still had a relationship with my dad until he died.

So I think there is room to be honest but without being   destructive .

I also think the kids need therapy so find a way to get that for the kids, OP.

Their mother is a narcissist and they are going to need all the tools in the world to deal with it.

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That sounds so awful, I'm sorry. That kind of thing is cruel at any age. People can sustain hard truths better than knowing they're being lied to, or made to feel like their intuition is off. 
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