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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]ARE they tools? Why is it fine for women to complain about their loser husbands to their friends, but a friend can't bring up how awful their friends husbands are? [/b]

Imagine if you divorced because of whatever issue, say emotional labor. And then all you see are your friends complaining about the exact same thing. I don't think it is that big of an issue, BUT I do think I'd mention something. I don't believe she is jealous, there could be a multitude of reasons for this behavior, but if it's bothering people or having friends slow fade (as pps suggest), I think it would benefit her and your friendships to bring it up and tell her to tone it down.[/quote]
It is absolutely not appropriate to comment negatively on someone else’s spouse or children. If you don’t want to hear a friend vent, stop her and change the subject. But someone’s family members are off limits for disrespect. Unless you have zero social grace, which is apparently the case for OP’s friend.[/quote]
So Jenny's husband is allowed to beat her, cheat on her and neglect their children, but heaven forbid anyone whisper something negative about John! 
 :roll: [/quote]

This is the sad state some women are living in. No us divorcees are not jealous of your cheating, violent, emotionally abusive, doesn’t know how to pick up behind himself spouse. Why would we be?

And to the trolls it’s not that we can’t keep a man….its that a man can’t keep us![/quote]

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