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[quote=Anonymous]I'm just so grateful that neither my brother nor sister ever held it against me that I wasn't there on a weekly or monthly basis when we had young kids and lived 4+hours away by plane. I tried to come for long stints when possible and I handled all of the paper work and related logistics (e.g., found the memory care program, etc) except for instances when they had to do so (both had the POA but were not great with bureaucracies so I would tee up what needed to be done, then they would do it). I always covered all my brother's meals when I visited and still send gifts, even when it is not a special day for him. For my sister, I had lent her some money at an earlier time, then forgave it to acknowledge all that she was doing to care for our parents.[/quote]
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