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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here my opinion which will probably be unpopular. Women wait until their 30s to start a family and have children. Usually at that point their career is on a good trajectory. But here lies the problem. It's like you race the next gas station because you are running out of gas but when you get there the station ran out of gas. If you look at demographic data for men between 30 and 49 this is the age when many of them suffer from alcoholism, depression, chronic unemployment, debt etc and a few have committed suicide. So the pool that women is chosen from is much smaller than they think. Some women get this illusion from the attention they get on OLD to think that they are plenty of men they can choose from. In reality the completion is fierce. The few men who are not affected by the issues I listed above are in high demand, but sadly they like to move at their own pace because they do not feel the pressure of a ticking biological clock. So naturally women in their 30s are in a "hurry". They may not realize it themselves but ask any guy in his 30s whenever he dates a woman in her 30s it's like a countdown clock has started she will send you passive aggressive hints that you need to make a move and I am not talking 6 months into the relationship I am taking a month into it if they feel you are the right guy. So here we have women who waited and now that they do not want to wait any longer they want to dictate the rules of the game....[/quote]

Maybe they wanted to be married in their 20s but the men didn't. While it's true that women are waiting longer prioritizing education and career I truly believe that if a woman in her 20s meet Mr Right and if he is equally interested she will put her plans on hold just to be his wife. As a man I find it amazing that so many men do not realize the advantage that they have. There are far more good women compared to good men. So a random man is more likely to find a great woman compared to a great woman finding a good man. And yet guys sometimes let a good slip by and from there they go down the rabbit hole of dating the women with huge body counts [/quote]

Many women are simply not that desperate to be wives and mothers and definitely not into putting their plans on hold just to be a man's wife. 
And the women with huge body counts that some men date might have many of the qualities that the men they date prefer.[/quote]

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