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[quote=Anonymous]OP wrote: “I think I have trauma from Walt’s church/cult and [b]I’m not ready to be with those people again[/b]…but I want to be supportive of my best friend.” You shouldn’t have to put yourself in a harmful situation to be supportive of her. It’s not just about how good a friend you are, but she also needs to be a good friend to you. And she shouldn’t want to put you through a painful situation that you’re not ready to deal with. Think carefully — will being her MOH also require you to host or attend other wedding-related events, like a shower, a bachelorette party or weekend, a rehearsal dinner? It may be much more than you can bear. Tell her that you greatly value her friendship, and that you’re honored that she asked you, but you can’t take on the role of her MOH because you’re just not emotionally ready to be back there at the church.[/quote]
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