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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I'm glad I posted here because it literally did not occur to me that she did not practice safe sex and use a condom in addition to her birth control. The thought never even crossed my mind. Genuinely thought that was such a part of the discourse it was standard practice. I grew up in the AIDS era, had a relative die from AIDS, condom usage was non negotiable in my dating days.

I am naive. I guess I thought the foreplay would be enough to result in STI.

So I said to her, wait, you told me you were being safe, are you saying you did not use a condom? And she said "I am being safe! But I just wanted to so much we just went ahead."  OMG. She has always had impulse control issues (documented in her neuropsych / 504 plan) and now I am just stunned at her poor decision making, though I shouldn't be. I had a lot to say about ALWAYS using a condom, taking control of her body and her choices, how LUCKY she was that it was something easily caught and resolved.

So thank you to the person who pointed out it was unlikely a condom was used.  [/quote]

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