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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Simple complementarity. A straight outdoorsy man with high testosterone will seek higher estrogen women.

And the fact is that they, no less than other men, want someone to take care of the home front. The man who does not want genetic offspring is rare, and the one who does not expect any potential mate to raise them almost does not exist.

If you are both out conquering the world, who will be at home to handle everything else?

Don't think they will hike or bike an iota less after the babies come.[/quote]

This! I know a couple that married early (20s), had kids, then both became super interested in physical fitness and started training for Ironman triathlons. They are divorced now. They were constantly bickering over who was going to watch the kids while they trained, whose turn it was to go swim, ect.

The men that are athletes/outdoorsy want someone to stay at home with kids so they can go on a long bike ride, kayak or whatever.[/quote]

This. 
And what’s moreso, is my experience in my 20s doing a lot of outdoor adventure stuff, hiking in coed groups was that men like to feel like strong protectors and providers biologically and it even shows among this kind of company. The guys were more drawn to the girls that walked slower and needed their help with things, than the girls who were all uber-competitive and at the front of the pack. Sure, they were impressed by the badass fitness girls, but they didn’t date them. [/quote]

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