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[quote=Anonymous]WOW, so much to unpack here....being the sole caregiver is akin to being the "patient" that you are caring for...so much confusion, angst, sadness, etc. and typically the caregiver just gets burnt out...yes she could have asked for help but seeing your approach to all of this I can see why she didn't....especially if she's a conflict avoider so she did it ALL until she couldn't and purposefully moved away...not for "no apparent reason" but to force you guys to stand and deliver for your Mom. Obviously S1 felt this was her only option. Telling her off won't help the situation, but I guess you can to get it off your chest and then immediately move on. For now, pretend she DID ask for help and now it's your turn...you'll have to eat the financial loss and hire help that is needed for your Mom.[/quote]
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