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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with posters who've told you your DH has clinical anxiety, probably OCD and (I'm adding here) depression.   They're often co-morbid with each other.

You've only been together as long as you have, however long that may be, because you are modifying YOUR behavior to "make it work."  in the lingo of the 1970s, i think they call that co-dependent.

I hope for your and your baby's sake he will agree to medication and talk therapy.   Note:  medication is an absolute must here.   Even with meds and behavioral therapy, he will not magically have a all-new laid back worldview.   But ideally, he'll stop with the abuse.

I'm writing as someone who is in the process of divorcing a husband who got worse and worse over the years, to the point where his lifelong anxiety and mild OCD blew up into depression and finally furious rage/anger directed at me and our son.     We no longer have a chance, because I can never forgive him.

Please don't let your relationship slide to this point.[/quote]

I agree with this.  Your husband needs therapy and medication.  [/quote]

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