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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'll offer a dissenting view - have you tried to become more organized? Have you levelled with your husband and said, "If you leave the gifts I buy and receive alone, I'd love your help to become more organized"?[/quote] You don't negotiate with terrorists.[/quote] This. He is gaslighting you. He is manipulating you to express emotions he denies having. A child should not be living in this environment. He is outrageously controlling. Let him and a doctor sort out the reason why. DO NOT get caught up in a backstory, he is a sick, sick man who is very unstable. This is not a life, this is mental illness. Your child has a genetic predisposition, you have to get him out of that environment so he/she has a chance to be normal. If you do not have a job, get one. Can you legally work here? If you do not have $ for counseling, call The House of Ruth in DC and they will give you a counselor. Also, get (even the library has) the book The Verbally Abusive Relationship. It will help you understand what is going on here. [/quote]
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