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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is not the father of one of our children. We were not married at the child's conception and he knew from the beginning. The child is now 13 and doesn't know he isn't the biological father (we don't plan to tell). [/quote] That is really sad, PP. The child deserves to know the truth. What about his biological family? [b] What if there are illnesses or something that is passed on to him,[/b] he doesn't even know his own medical history? [/quote] This line of argument is so over-rated.... People have lived for thousands of years without as much as being aware that there are genes. And all of a sudden, unless a child doesn't have a fully sequenced genome of both parents at his disposal, he is somehow crippled. I have no dog in this fight but I can totally understand that some parents would chose not to tell their children. [/quote] I also have no dog in this fight, but wonder if and when the child learns the truth, if the fallout will be much more damaging than if he knew all along. What if you lose your son because he can't forgive the betrayal and deception?[/quote] First, the child might never find out. As some examples from this thread suggest, there are in fact people who never find out. Second, if he finds out and makes a really big deal out of it, he is kind of an entitled ass**** who would find an issue to berate his parents about regardless.[/quote] You can't be serious. Must be a shit-stirring troll. [/quote]
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