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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is not the father of one of our children. We were not married at the child's conception and he knew from the beginning. The child is now 13 and doesn't know he isn't the biological father (we don't plan to tell). [/quote]

That is really sad, PP.  The child deserves to know the truth.  What about his biological family?  What if there are illnesses or something that is passed on to him, he doesn't even know his own medical history?

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It sounds like you have a stable family now-and that's good for all of you.  After growing up with a lot of riduculousness in my own family of origin, my motto for my family is "No secrets, no lies."  Would it really be so harmful for your son to know the truth: that he has a dad who chose to love him and raise, but another man is his biological father.  I think it can be easier to have that knowledge from a young age than to learn it later in life-and in my family, and in others I know, family members do start spilling secrets.  [/quote]

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