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[quote=Anonymous]It's really childish and frankly ignorant when people use terms like 'mean girl' about a CHILD. fair if a child does it about another child. But kids - especially under the age of 10 and sometimes over it - who hit or misfire socially, are learning, they may have a neurodiversity (btw we all have some kind of neurodiversity, some are easier to deal with than others), they may just have low emotional regulation, or impulse control without a diagnosis. I have 2 kids, one who has needed a ton of supports, is super impulsive and lacks emotional regulation - and one who is literally perfectly behaved and has never i think once in his life had a negative interaction with another human. Same parent. So i never ever judge parents or kids who are struggling unless I see the parent either give zero fs or actively encourge the kid's violence (once in a playground saw a dad tell his kid to hit another kid - bananas). She's probably avoiding you because she senses the judgement. [/quote]
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