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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]How frequently were they texting in the old thread?[/b]

If you're ever at a point when things happen during your day and your first thought is to text your "friend" of the opposite gender and not your spouse, you are basically having an emotional affair.

Relationships are what you put into them. If you choose to put a lot of energy into a friendship, especially ahead of your marriage, the results will speak for themselves after some time.[/quote]

This is the salient point. If they are texting a few times per week about personal stuff (feelings, anecdotes, joking around, etc), that's basically indicative that more is happening (either emotionally or physically).

I have long-time friends who I met before my spouse. We live all over the country and mainly stay in touch by sending each other memes over Instagram and occasionally chatting about personal stuff maybe once a month. But mostly our convos are limited to funny memes and commenting on each others pics ("awesome trip! would you recommend that hotel in Mexico for the kids?").

TBH, what you're discussing feels different. This is person who entered your lives in recent years and is in close proximity. There's smoke. [/quote]

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