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[quote=Anonymous]Your brother probably doesn't want to be a true partner in responsibility here. If he did, he would be doing it already. I get that you don't want to be the sole holder of ultimate responsibility, but it seems like that's how it's gonna be. I would ask him to do specific things as they arise. If he pushes back that they should be outsourced, invite him to do the work to find a service provider. Basically just keep handing him work. There are no magic words you can say that will make him say "Yes, lets make a master spreadsheet of all tasks and I will agree to do many of them in perpetuity". He's not gonna do that and pushing him will only make him avoid you. People are telling you to outsource more because that's what you'll do in the end, once you've wrapped your head around the reality that brother fairness isn't gonna happen.[/quote]
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