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[quote=Anonymous]This sounds like someone that really doesn't want a marriage or kids - or at least not as a priority. She isn't going to want to get an advanced degree and then not grow her career. Kids (pregnancy, mat leaves, infants, toddlers, preschoolers) usually stall careers for women - it isn't a time to grow a career. So you can plan on her wanting to work a few years before having kids after she finishes her career.

And I am concerned she is looking to you to support her going back to school. You have only been together for 15 months but now she is going to live off you while she goes to school. Way too soon for a boyfriend / girlfriend to be covering all costs

Seems more she sees you as a stepping stone - and not as the father of her (possible) children.

You say you don't want to break up and that is your choice but plan to be the one paying all living expenses and not having kids for at least 5-8 year. If that is what you want - then stick around. She has told you what her plans are - using you for financial stability to go to school to advance her education and grow her career. 
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