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[quote=Anonymous]Most people would not be okay with a man seeing a rich woman as his success while he hangs out at home.

Yes for some - a man is the plan or a woman is the plan and they are happy to not contribute to the expenses of having an adult or having a family but it is also normal and healthy OP to want to have your own successes too, and to want to have financial income and responsibilities - that is part of being an adult.

I am not at all a fan of raising girls to have the goal or dream of meeting a rich man. Clearly many don't think they need education or ambition or careers or anything because his successes will be their successes. They just need a man with money.

And people who say well he gets to grow his career....well he gets to also take on all responsibility for a roof over your heads, food, cars, clothes, vacations, extra curriculars, health / medical costs, insurance, college, pensions, retirement, and ever other expense that comes with life. And he gets to work long hours and miss his kids growing up so you can lunch with the ladies and have the week to yourself. So yes, it is a terrible sacrifice to cancel tennis because you have a sick child but you aren't the only one making sacrifices. [/quote]

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