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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. Just chiming in I have the same problems with my DH. My solution has been to just overfunction and expect very little from
DH. But that has led to severe burnout for me. After 10 years, I reached my own limit on managing my career, the kids, and the house as well as DH. I ended up quitting my job because I truly couldn’t do it anymore. Now we are in a terrible position financially and I am unsure what happens next but I couldn’t keep going like before. I think we will likely divorce but it scares me to think of my kids alone with DH.[/quote]

I am in this exact situation. my burnout is so severe that I have no idea how to extricate myself from it. Am considering trying to jack it all in and move to a small house in the burbs and quit my c level job bc I can barely function after the stress of balancing it all for so long. [/quote]

Can you disclose this all to your family and get some respite?

I handed my spouses entire neuropsych test over to my siblings and parents and asked for help, understanding, joint vacations so I got more help, and more time together so they had positive, functional male role models. My brother coaches my son’s basketball team three years now. My adhd/asd spouse just floats around at the games pretending he has anything to do with anything.

I also redid the will and PoA should I have any health issues and need advocacy. My money also goes straight into kids’ trusts and not to my delinquent spouse. [/quote]

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