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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a half vent, half looking for advice. My DH literally can’t follow through on any task to save his life, even things he volunteers to do/handle without being asked. I am currently furious because we are doing some work to our house and he promised to handle ordering our new appliances months ago. He has dragged out the decision, first claiming he wanted to do research, then claiming he wanted to ask around. He always says he doesn’t want to rush big, expensive decisions, but does it really take 3 months to order a refrigerator when we always knew what we wanted all along. I gave him an ultimatum to do it last weekend, but surprise surprise he didn’t. [b]I finally told him if he didn’t get to done today to not come home from work tonight.[/b] He yelled at me for being a nag and says it makes him not want to do anything. So basically I can’t win - ask him to do it and I am a nag, or don’t ask anything and things will NEVER get done. Anyway, he finally placed the order this afternoon and now everything is on back order for 6 months, but it wasn’t a few weeks ago. I am pissed because we have family coming to stay with us in June and our kitchen was supposed to be done. Now it won’t be since the contractor won’t finish everything until the appliances come in. That is just one example but it’s really everything. His parents came over for dinner last Friday night and he said he would handle getting stuff to grill, but at 5pm he hadn’t done anything and decided to order pizza. Sure maybe that isn’t a big deal, but when every single thing is that way with him I just can’t deal anymore. I am just so over it. Has anyone ever gotten through to their husband before over something like this? Every time I have to push or remind him I am made out to be the bad guy. I try to explain to DH how much this bothers me but he just tells me I am too high strung and need to let things go, be more relaxed. Seriously questioning whether I can spend the rest of my life with this person.[/quote] Uh, no one bothered to point out that this is totally unacceptable from the OP?? I guess when he’s inevitably not satisfied with the sex life that comes out of this chaos, he should say, “If you’re not going to want to have sex tonight, just go stay in a hotel.” [/quote] Take it to a red pill forum, incel.[/quote]
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