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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, OP, do you have a problem with trust so it is hard when he did this, which may be benign? If so, maybe it is something you want to work through with a therapist on this issue. Are there other red flags? Why were you looking at his old page - because other red flags you were seeing? Look dating is assessing if you are a good fit. Maybe he had one foot in and one foot out and that is when he updated. Maybe he was processing his feelings about you. Why would he say he loved you - if he doesn’t? I don’t have any answers for you, but agree trusting your intuition is usually a good idea. [/quote] I do have trust issues bc ex DH cheated and put me thru the ringer. Betrayal trauma is so damaging. I tried to trust my bf, and I did, but a part of me believes in “trust AND verify.” When I found his profile I was shook. I don’t even know if anything happened but I psychologically went right back to the betrayal trauma in my marriage. [/quote]
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