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Reply to "Husband surprised me and I want to cry (not joyful tears)"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a healthy marriage, it's perfectly fine to say, Honey I love your note. You're so sweet and it makes me cry. But just so you know, I'm changing things back to how I had it--it suits me best. Love you! And then he would say, oops, I totally misfired on that didn't I? Ok ok I'm not going to mess with any decor related stuff from now on. In a not so healthy relationship all bets are off. Keep in mind though that as much as you want to spare his feelings, you also need to be more assertive of your own. Your needs and preferences matter and stifling them over long periods of time can only lead to bottled up resentment.[/quote] This. Appreciate the effort, and acknowledge that an attempt was made. Explain why it's a miss. Move on.[/quote]
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