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[quote=Anonymous]OMFG the doormat behavior on this thread. :roll: OP, if it's your space, make it what you like. Explain that you'd like it to be yours, and will be arranging it as you like. That you didn't do this before spending 4 weeks working on it highlights the communication breakdown already. You don't need to "spare his feelings". It's okay to not like things. Just be honest. "I appreciate the thought, but this isn't the help I needed. I'd prefer..." Do you go into his office and change things around? Is this retaliatory in some way? It sounds really passive-aggressive and immature to me, especially if you think you can't say "hey, I don't like this" without him making your space all about him/his feelings. Y'all need to talk this out like adults. Whatever you do, don't stew about it. Communicate.[/quote]
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